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One half of a big half asleep moment of realization about why Willy is the way he is, and what that means for Cody. This is a delicate couple of pages, so I expect the monologue is going to change a bit

Obviously, if someone has had trauma in the past, that can make them act like a dick in the present; I'm pretty sure we're all on board for that idea, and Cody has said as much. Based on what Willy has said and what we can see, it should be clear he's experienced some sort of life trauma 

The second obvious question that follows that is: if someone you like is traumatized, are you willing to deal with the reactive part of trauma? We like the idea that everyone is responsible for their reactions, but instead of a binary switch, it might be more like a slider scale of responsibility. Trauma makes people reactive and pathological, and treating them as fully in control of their responses isn't right. Morality only applies when people are making a choice, after all

The third, less obvious question: morally correct or not, how much of another person's personal trauma are you willing to absorb? 

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Anonymous

....he will never stop loving Cody. Thats something dangerous; however, it doesn't change things besides the hit or abuse. If anger can be dispersed and discussed it won't escalate to physical harm. That being said. There is no excuse for hitting anyone. I've been the perp and the victim. It's hard to open up but it's necessary to make changes in your life.

Anonymous

Wow I feel so bad for Cody and Willy. This is such a hard situation they are in. Cody is still a closeted gay person and do not know how to deal with all these emotions. And Willy is certainly traummatized and peoples need to be patient with him.

Dingo & Shep

Cyclic abuse is based in this idea; This was traumatic for Cody, maybe he'll deal with it okay or not, but I've seen this cause the exact same trauma response where the person who hurts someone, accidentally or otherwise, pushes others away to make sure they don't risk hurting anyone again. They become the villain of their own lives, dangerous and unworthy of love in their own mind, and it gnaws and whittles away at them. Alternatively, it also was an effective deterrent and they see that effective reaction, so violence can become a flagship tool in their trauma/pain management toolkit. It can become an insidious monster of a result for this sort of thing. Bravo for tackling something as heavy as this sort of thing.

BCXVI

That last phrase :’( so hard.

purplebirdman

Very true but their relationship is also very new and plastic, and it can go in a healthy direction despite the faults of both parties!

purplebirdman

I’m always concerned about portraying tough subjects in a thoughtful way, but ultimately I don’t want my own vanity to drive the narrative. I wanted to show two very flawed young people figuring out their issues and developing a real relationship, good and bad in their measure

Anonymous

That's the beauty of your story telling and artistic gifts.