🤦🏼♀️ B y e 🙋🏼♀️ (Patreon)
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Oh man.. Mir hat ein ‚ex‘ Patreon eine ganz fürchterliche Nachricht geschrieben. Daran wollte ich euch mal teilhaben lassen. Schreibt mir auch gerne eure Meinungen darüber 💕 In der vorherigen Nachricht von ihm (die extrem lang war) hat er mich quasi beleidigt und mich mit anderen verglichen, was er damals als ich frisch mit YT angefangen habe, schon immer gemacht hat. Beispiele aus der ersten Nachricht: Mein ASMR Content ist stark unterdurchschnittlich, meine Videos sind eine absolute Katastrophe, mein Boobsgeknete ist peinlich, schaffe es den Zuschauer nicht in den Bann zu ziehen, er sei so ehrlich zu mir, weil er mich mag und lieb hat (lol). Dann lest euch mal meine Nachricht durch & dann seine Reaktion. Zum Glück hat er sich selbst entfernt sonst hätte ich es gemacht. 😄
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Oh god.. An 'ex' Patreon wrote me terrible messages. I wanted to share that with you. Feel free to write me your opinions about it 💕 In the previous message from him (which was extremely long) he practically insulted me and compared me with others, which he always did when I started YT. Examples from the first message: My ASMR content is well below average, my videos are an absolute disaster, it’s embarrassing when I play with my boobs, don't manage to put the viewer under the spell & he is so honest with me because he really likes me (lol). Then read through my message & then his reaction. Fortunately he removed himself otherwise I would have done it. 😄
Edit (Translation): While I'm open for any kind of critique and opinion and try to read each one thoughtfully, I have to say that I can not share your view at all. For once, I don't feel insecure (as you said) in any way; I'm very happy and enjoy my work to the fullest. Furthermore, you state your subjective opinion as some kind of objective, absolute truth; thats something that I don't accept out of principle. Your wording makes it seem like you can't comprehend the difference between subjective opinion and something like a objective fact. Especially when it comes to art and asthetics, every value differs heavily from person to person. Other than that, critiques that contain phrasings such as "absolutelly catastrophically" or "emberassing" are definetely not constructive. Your whole type comes across as very self-righteous and overbearing.
The majority of my fans actually do wish for this exact kind of content that I'm publishing - and even those that have something to critizise, never do it in such a unsympathetic way like you do.
Usually I dont go as far as now; but sometimes I do make use of my right to stand up for myself and show clear boundaries, when it is legitimate to do so.