Side-burns! (Patreon)

I don't know what it is, but when I put my hair up in a ponytail or bun my little baby hairs start acting up! Usually the first ten minutes after the updo it's all right, but soon after that point it's all down hill :'D thing is, I often don't realise until it's far too late (when I come home from work)- maybe I need to use hair gel? Or hair wax??