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DISCORD UPDATE (Patreon)

Published:
2019-07-13 20:12:30
Edited:
2019-07-13 20:17:01
Imported:
2020-09

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Hey everyone. I just deleted my Discord server.

I have mentioned this a couple of times, but I have social anxiety. And the Discord has just been a source of too much stress for the last couple of weeks, it took a toll on my mind and my happiness, because I was constantly trying to keep everyone else on it happy. 

I'll restart a new server in a week or two, it'll just be for patrons. The other server was just too much, I'm really sorry. 

I think I tried to be too involved. And I reached past my limits... I just can't juggle so many balls at once, and I am going to focus on what I can for now. My first priority, of course, being YouTube and Patreon. 

Comments

Jcw490

I’m sorry it ended up being a negative for you, definitely have to do what’s best for your health first ✌️

Anonymous

Do what's best for your health 😊

Viktheone

No worries!! We will support you always!

Anonymous

You're a brave soul doing what you do with social anxiety! Can relate. I too have the anxiety of the socials. But can't imagine the tax of thousands of people expecting things from me...

animaechan
>>24704603

For some reason, your comment just brought out the tears I've been holding back for the past 20 minutes!! aahhhgggg what a shitty day hahah BUT I am so so so so X10000 grateful for your continued support...

Anonymous

What's Discord?

animaechan

I'm so sorry Cobra <3 I'll make a new one when I'm ready and then it'll be just for patrons. I hope that'll make things easier. Love you :3

Luis Almanza

Take care of yourself and don't worry about it. It's all part of the learning experience.

animaechan
>>24704637

it really feels good knowing there are some people who understand... I've been keeping my head just above water for the last month, but tonight it was like someone pushed my head down and I didn't have the strength to fight back so I just let myself drown

Anonymous

Do what you've got to do, you'll have my support regardless, Social anxiety is tough to deal with, get yourself together well be here. Added edit : Anyone pushing you too much just send a little Nose Fancy their way.

Anonymous

Even I was overwhelmed with the amount of messages and people on the discord. I can only imagine the stress you must have felt but don't feel guilty and sorry for deleting the discord all of a sudden. Your health comes first. Will support you anyway !

Anonymous

Hey, I have to admit I am surprised - after you just wanted to reopen OP comments on youtube. I really hope you are ok. And like others have said, don't stress about it too much - we will have your back. All the best! :)

sotossss-nya

Take care of yourself kt we don't care about Discord!!

Anonymous

we will support you all the way

HunterTariq

no worries KT i was think i left the server by mastake we are here for u when u need anything <3

Anonymous

Wow, I'm surprised it ended up like this. I just feel sad for all the people I liked in the server and losing touch with them. I can understand it getting too much, and also how making it Pateon-only might help but a lot of people in the top rank weren't really Patreons so that's going to kind of suck. Would it have been possible to leave the server and keep it under the care of Hanco and the Mod Team until you feel better? I mostly joined for anime but the amount of people from different fandoms coming together was such a wonderful thing that no other server had for me. Best of luck, KT and hope this step helps you.

Chris Poveroni

Don't sweat it! I can only take Discord in small doses, too. It can be a useful tool, but that's all it should be- a tool for you to use, not the other way around. Get some good mods to help curate the channel and soon Discord will be something to make you smile, not something you dread dealing with.

Anonymous

Don't feel the need to apologize hun, social anxiety should not be taken lightly. Your physical and mental health come before anything else. Please rest assured, if you ever miss a message / feel like you just don't want to be in a conversation, most people will understand. Take care KT, sending you lots of love xx

animaechan
>>24704701

thank you so much <3 you're right. I'll definitely learn from this, refine how I do things... and move forward when I can, hopefully with confidence/faith...

animaechan
>>24704766

yeah like I mentioned, I was trying to deal with too much at once... comments, dm's on various platforms, tweets and mod drama, real life stuff... I just need to focus a little and recoup.

Unholy

It’s Unholy, yeah don’t apologize at all definitely keep taking care of your mental health like you said. Definitely more important.

Stryfe

Don't worry about it KT. A good idea to take a step back, when you feel like that. Always take care of yourself first. Then come back stronger, with a new discord, no rush. Don't feel the need to think about everybody's needs, cause I think most people are just happy to be here watching your reactions. All the best! <3

Anonymous

Oh..i see. You dont have to feel sorry or something. Take your time . ❤

Anonymous

Don't worry about it KT I can only imagine how your feeling with the anxiety I suffer from it as well. No matyer your decisions I will always support you. If you ever need a shoulder or an ear I am here to talk to. Focus on yourself first! Your number one remember that you can only make others smile if your smiling yourself. Take care! <3

Anonymous

Dear K´tan I´m so sorry to hear that you got so much health problems. Your Health is Important. Take the time you need, Attend to your Problems as requiert. No one with a Heart will hold that against you. Get Well!! Hugs Mike.

Maya

Don't worry darling, your well-being is the most important so take care of yourself first. And I can totally understand how stressful and overwhelming Discord probably was for you, because it was/is overwhelming for me too - and I didn't really even talk. Just the amount of messages and people there was too much for me, and trying to keep up with the conversations was impossible. You don't need to apologize, just take care of your mental health and just health in general, and don't worry about starting the new server, you can do that when you're ready and feel like it. Lots of love for you KT!! ❤❤

animaechan
>>24705762

I really can feel the sincerity in your words and I can't tell you how much it means to me, Maya!! thank you so much for understanding... I promise I'll keep doing my best for you all

animaechan
>>24705738

Thank you so much Mike! For everything!! You can message me on here anytime, you know that :D

Anonymous

feel better

Anonymous

That is very sad to hear KT :(. I can relate to your problems because I am nervous around people, especially around people I dont know. I was lurking on discord, only reading messages. but never joined any conversation. Im always overthinking what other people will think of me, of what i typed, what i said so I rather just listen. Your reactions and reviews make me smile and make my boring life better so please take care of yourself and get better. Wish You all the best. Stay strong! We are here for you!

Adam Ray

Just gonna reiterate what I said on twitter: As a famous fish once said "Just keep swimming". If u want an anxiety negating anime (& is adorbs), check out "If it's for my daughter, I'd even defeat a demon". It's an incredibly wholesome anime that just came out on CR. Sidenote: would love to see your reaction to it because I'd bet it's just a solid 23min of you "aww"ing and gushing over the cuteness; so worth it, obv :D.

Purematty

i understand, i have social anxiety sometimes extremely bad but everyone especially you was so nice and welcoming i felt at home. i really hope you can feel better and safer soon. we support you!

Anonymous

Heya Kt you should take your time for yourself, no rush in doing anything. We will always be here to support you and love you <3

Adam Ray
>>24706687

Also, I have a very strong suspicion that one of the father figures' VA is your fav guy VA; can't remember his name, but the dude that plays the blonde prince char in Ouran HSHC.

Anonymous

Donmai, donmai! Go at your own flow. Go at your own speed. We'll be here, like always. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28gquEu_UfI

Adam Ray
>>24706687

Just look at this cuteness. 4 or 5 year old kid gets orphaned; this is her reaction to seeing MC. dat unconditional love doe... https://imgur.com/gallery/Y8YXZ13

Anonymous

No need to say sorry, your reason is completely valid. We will still support you always even if you ultimately decide not to have a discord forever :) I regret saying the discord community is amazing in one of my comments, now I know that it's not because it was a source of negativity to you. Just focus on what makes you happy, we'll be happy if we know you're happy. Let's share happiness here :) Thank you again for all the hardwork! Take care of yourself always!

Anonymous

That's where it went, lol, i thought i had gotten kicked out xD do ur thing, ur way, people will adapt to you :P

Anonymous

Well thank god i didn't get kicked and hearing your reason i think it was a good decision as the same was happening to me...

Anonymous

Sooo Sad to hear about this I really loved the discord from the short amount of time i was there i will continue to support ya and your amazing content but understand it was your own personal choice wish you the best

Ltnorm

Don't worry about it you do what you need to do

Anonymous

Hmmmm...to this day i dont even know how Discord works. I opened it once and closed immediately and never looked at it again cuz when i opened it, all i saw was discord

Dontrell Durant

Wow! I’m late to knowing everything. I work too much.

Anonymous

Thank you for all of the content and everything you give us fans. You're a really hard worker. Just do you and everything will fall back into place again.