WIP: Dexter Mom (Patreon)

Welp, Im fucking tired of this, I don't know what to do, if I edit the body mesh which I can confirm by cleaning up the mesh the soft body works but I can't merge the genitalia, if I edit after merging genitalia I cant add softbody later on and I don't have any idea why this is happening ( I thought it was just one morph) and the obviously I don't want to change the body again, my question here is, someone use softbody? Because I could remove softbody at least for Dexter Mom if not too many of nobody use softbody