LIVE Chat: Honesty vs. Oversharing, Spiraling with Worst Case Scenarios, and Balance During NRE (Patreon)

Thanks to all who came out for yesterday's Live chat. I'm developing a new production schedule to hopefully do these more often, aiming for once a month. Since it's a way to be accessible for all €3+ patrons to come and ask me anything, I'd like to offer that more regularly. Yesterday's recording is here, with approximate timecode markers below. I hope they can be helpful.

Timecode:

• 00.00 - Intro
• 00.50 - What's the difference between honesty and oversharing? Some questions to consider when finding the line for each relationship
• 13.50 - How can you get better at not spiraling with worst case scenarios?
• 20.25 - How do you find balance during obsessive new relationship energy? 
• 25.35 - What do you suggest when polyamory makes sense intellectually but there's still so much nervous system activation?
• 31.15 - About the video on Spotting Boundary Pushers Early, are there any updates since a few months have passed?
• 34.20 - How do you know when self-proclaimed non-hierarchical people are telling the truth?
• 41.10 - When a partner dates your friend, how do you evolve that friendship to include a metamour element?
• 47.15 - How or when do we use terms like "lover" or "partner", while trying to also not play into mononormative labels / expectations?
• 50.40 - Advice for dating, especially as a couple, outside of the apps?
• 55.50 - How do you know when it's time to break up with someone?

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Automated transcription attached at the bottom of this post, via Otter AI

xx

Morgan