LIVE CHAT: On Boundaries vs Demands, One Penis Policy, and Proving Fears Wrong (Patreon)

Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time mid/late autumn, I hope to see you there again.

Chapters:

• 00.00 Intro / Differences between boundaries and demands
• 10.38 Format for check ins?
• 13.30 On double standards and proving fears wrong
• 22.40 Optics of dating one person in polyam
• 27.45 What if a therapist pathologizes polyam?
• 31.50 Are non-mono people often neurodivergent, disabled or queer?
• 34.34 Growing past the desire for OPP
• 40.40 Feeling like an experiment, how to heal and self protect?
• 46.13 My current struggles (couples privilege, opening my home)
• 52.52 How trauma recovery impacts my domestic sex life (Content warning for broad, non-descriptive mentions of SA and CSA)
• 58.50 Outro

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Video captions generated by Vimeo. Automated transcription attached at the bottom of this post, via Otter AI

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Morgan