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How I'm Ending Non-Reciprocal Relationships (Patreon)

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2022-09-04 09:23:04
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Hi cutie,

Over the last week or so, I've ended 2 significant relationships in my life. One is short term, the other long term. One is romantic, the other non-romantic. I'll offer my experience with being "all give, no take" in these dynamics, and how I'm removing myself. Maybe that will be of service to you.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Updates
1:45 Which relationships should be reciprocal?
3:14 Overview of Breakup 1
8:48 Overview of Breakup 2
11:07 The build up to being "done"
13:07 Fearing social consequences
15:02 Fearing material and emotional consequences
15:59 Cut-and-run impulses
17:30 We don't need to sell them on our value
18:49 Too little too late
19:46 Rates of coming together and of falling apart
20:35 Outro

Captions included on video.
Automated transcript PDF attached to the Patreon post.

Sending love and chat soon!
Morgan

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00:00 Intro and Updates 1:45 Which relationships should be reciprocal? 3:14 Overview of Breakup 1 8:48 Overview of Breakup 2 11:07 The build up to being "done" 13:07 Fearing social consequences 15:02 Fearing material and emotional consequences 15:59 Cut-and-run impulses 17:30 We don't need to convince them to give to us 18:49 Too little too late 19:46 Rates of coming together and of falling apart 20:35 Outro

Comments

Stelly

Thank you for sharing this. I also recently ended two relationships last month (one romantic, one non-romantic) due to lack of reciprocity. And, after much deliberation, I ALSO chose to block because I could identify my vulnerability to being drawn back in. So much of what you’ve said here mirrored my own needs/fears/thought processes around those decisions. It was extremely validating to hear you talk about it all. So thank you, deeply.

Danielle Cottrell

I think the block feature is useful in these situations because you’re affirming that the line is drawn. You’ve made the decision for your own peace, and it is not open for negotiation. You’re not inviting any further hurt. I think that “ending” a relationship with the hope of the other person begging for a reconciliation is more dangerous / unhealthy than closing the lines of communication using the block button.