Patrons Only Comic: Pre-Holiday Pep Talk (Patreon)

Beautiful Patrons. 

Our Patrons-Only comic this month is a return from the lovingly-shouty Feetie Pyjama Brenda. Feetie Pyjama Brenda (FPB) appears when we need someone to rabidly advocate for our wellbeing and self care. She is aggressively loving. She also wears a plaid onesie at all times.

It is November which means that the holiday season is rapidly approaching. This can be a lovely celebratory time full of friends and family and traditions galore. It can also be REALLY hard for some people and, at least in some parts of the world, it's kind of inescapable.

SO. FPB is here to remind you that the holidays do not entitle people to you. Just because it's (insert date) doesn't mean that you have to support a toxic relationship, participate in traditions or conversations that cross your boundaries, or forgo your own wellbeing because it's a "special time of year". 

If you celebrate something this season, I wish you the full force head first joy that it can bring! And if you don't, or can't, or just don't want to, I am so happy to support you and so is Feetie Pyjama Brenda. Seriously, if someone is pushing your buttons OR your boundaries, just give her the phone.

Be well. Take time. Take space. I'm grateful for you and I'm so dang happy you're here. 

B