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Love Languages: A Philosophical Horror (Patreon)

Published:
2022-12-30 23:08:35
Imported:
2023-07

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new video! I hope you enjoy! Also, as per usual, I do need a few days to get the bonus video and stream together. The file for this video was corrupted and I had to re-edit the whole thing tonight. Sorry about that! Everything should come in a day or three. wooooo

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Anonymous

If feels to me like the whole love language talk is to serve as a vehicle to communicate to ones partner a need in a way that provides a legitimation for this need. If reads as if if you just said "I wanted a gift and you didnt get me one" was prone to being fundamentally unjustified. As if your partner could just say "why? why would I need to give you a gift? What is a reason that you have for wanting a gift? Please validate your need for me or I have every reason to just dismiss it." By throwing in this simple and universally applicable premise that whatever i need from you is because getting that is my love language and thats just a fact I seem to be able to guard myself against my emotional reality being straight up dismissed. This utility of love language concept is there only provided this terrifying assumption that just stating a need for a token of some type of affection is not a good enough reason for your partner to take it seriously. This is an absolutely dystopian idea of an interpersonal relationship and if you take this idea away then yup - the love language vocabulary is absolutely superfluous. But then you'd have to assume about your partner and you that needing love is valid and creates, at least possibly, an obligation to react to it. So the emotional needs themselves are good enough to motivate your partner actions and to motivate you to express them. If you do dot see interpersonal relationships that way then yeah - love is a terribly difficult struggle inherently. Such a sad reality to have tho. If we are to assume that a reason behind popularity of this book is that there is a genuine demand for this conceptual instrument that people do have a need for in their relationships then that is just sooo fucking tragic.

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Anonymous

Tbh there is a… Weird over complicating issue in self help where basic ideas are made just. Incoherent in an attempt to make what the writer’s saying seem like some sort of deep truth. Like I do think there’s a truth to the idea that love is a choice where attraction isn’t. You choose to care for and stay with your dog even when it pisses on your carpet and love your parent even when they mess up or can’t provide for you, that whole notion of ‘in sickness or in health for richer or poorer’ you know? I also think there’s an importance to learning your loved ones emotional and physical needs and how they may differ from others.Like, knowing that your partner doesn’t like when you do too many things because it makes them feel insecure or they dislike getting gifts or parties because it makes them feel cheap or pressured. But both of those basic ideas are just covered in enough nonsense that they feel unnatural. Sorry that this is so long, this one just had me thinking a bit.

Anonymous

Thank you making this, I have family members crazy into this thing. I've always hated psychology that starts with a buzz feed test