So Here’s A Life Update... [ Please Read ] (Patreon)

To start this off I’ve been incredibly sleep deprived. Between only getting to talk to D Knight at weird times due to his schedule, the baby’s sleep is still pretty all over the place. One night she will sleep 6-8 hours straight. But others she’s awake every 2 hours or so and takes a while to go back down. And she’s still too little for any attempt at the CIO method. (Which would be a pain for me to do as right now we co-sleep. It’s the only way I can get her to settle for the night and actually sleep. It sucks a little because that also impacts my sleep so when I do sleep I’m still on edge.)

I get most of my recordings done at night/very early in the morning. So if the baby isn’t sleeping well that ruins my chances of getting good recordings in. And I can’t predict the nights where she will sleep well so I get paranoid that the moment I go to my office she will wake up because she senses I’m gone. I can sometimes record in the afternoon while my older kid is in school and everyone is quietly working but that’s only when my Mother In Law can come over to babysit. These last two weeks she’s mostly been unavailable due to doctor appointments and this past week she had my older kid at her house for a little vacation meaning she couldn’t come over to also watch the baby. ( Kiddo was able to stay there because her school is closed due to a positive Corona case. We’re hoping they reopen on Monday. ) Once the older kid is back in school she should have time a couple days a week to look after the baby.

This is mostly why I have been doing more livestreams. My folks can mind the kids in the evenings but the house is too noisy for ASMR recording. ( TVs are blaring, older kid is running around, the parrot squawks because evenings and mornings are squawk o clock for her, etc. ) Plus I sometimes have people come in to ask me about stuff or older kid bursts in to ask/tell/show me something. It’s easier for me to just mute the mic when this happens while streaming than risking scrapping recordings I work hard on.

I’m sure you’ve noticed I’ve incorporated character roleplay into my streams. And I do like the interactive aspect of the characters getting to interact with the viewers. It reminds me of the early days of my content which had a more interactive aspect as I was able to make polls each video asking the audience what they would like to see happen next. It sucks I can’t do that anymore as they moved polls to the Community tab and it would be a pain and a nuisance for me to do a poll like that after each video. Vtube roleplay allows me that interactive aspect again with the characters and engagement with viewers. (And they’re great if you like the lore of my characters and stories as I tend to drop bits of info during the streams.) It’s just a bummer I can’t incorporate more ASMR into it as my headset mic wasn’t made for that and if I attached the 3Dio to the computer it would pick up every sound in the room especially the computer fan and make the audio garbage. I understand if you don’t like streams but I do feel you’d get some enjoyment watching the VODs of some of them. ( The first Paige one had lots of lore, Aiko’s explained why she is the way she is, and the first Nica stream was just pure comedy gold just to give some examples.)

As for more personal Life stuff.... it’s been chaos. Due to delays getting parts in there’s still construction going on in the house. I’m dealing with medical issues I’ve been going to doctors for (plus my mental health hasn’t been great which means it may be time for another med adjustment 😔) My sexdrive has been all over the place but seems to only really be triggered when I talk to my husband. And do you really want me to try to fake it when I do the NSFW stuff? 😂 I live in the US so I’ve been having anxiety over the obvious...

...and to top it all off my felon abusive ex out of nowhere wants to take me to court over getting to see older kiddo. Despite the fact he made little attempt to contact her in almost 2 years and hasn’t paid child support since early 2016. So I need to retain an attorney and deal with this nonsense. Which does nothing good for my stress levels.

So I’m sorry regular content has been infrequent. Life has been getting in the way and taking a royal dump on me. I miss it as much as you do. I have tons of ideas I want to bring to fruition. Please be patient with me. I promise stuff will come soon. Especially as some of the chaos dies down. If you’re new to my Patreon and my content as a whole I highly recommend going through my old library of goodies. There’s plenty of there to entertain you while you wait on new things! To my old time fans, thank you for your continued patience with me as well as your understanding of the changes in my life since last year. Everyone’s love and support means the world to me and I wouldn’t have as much of a drive to be creative and make cool stuff without you. ❤️

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Xoxo Kitti Minx 💋

PS: to those who qualify postcards and stickers will be going out soon. Just found the right envelopes the other day. So now it’s a matter of addressing them and getting them to the post! Thank you for your patience. 💖