Cuddling | The Horny Post | 2/11/23 (Patreon)

Cuddling is better than sex. I have always felt this way. Of course, I could not have known for sure until I lost my virginity when I was 18. I lost to my first boyfriend on our first date. For bottoms and most women, having sex for the first time is bad. I had more experience later on and now I can officially say that cuddling is better than any sex I have ever had.

For a femboy who promotes himself as a horny needy slut it may be odd that I love cuddling more. I can be very horny and think about sex a lot. In most sexual fantasies I've had they start with close warm cuddling. Snuggling all in and laying my head in a man's chest as he wraps his arms around my frail form is emotionally fulfilling. Knowing that he's stronger and can protect feels safe and comforting. The smell of a man surrounding the air makes me sleepy. Sleeping while cuddling is therapeutic. 

 To get to my heart, cuddling is the way to go. If someone I'm with wants to fuck me I often oblige. I honest to God believe it my role to give my body. However, if they refrain from fucking me immediately and instead pick my body up, lay day, and spoon me I will be much happier. Sex is great and I want it, but cuddling is almost always better. Other than being relatively clean, there is no preparation needed to engage in the act. Sex comes with hours of fasting followed by douching. Bottom boys rarely can just jump into sex and always have to be prepared. But cuddling? You can be jumped and snuggled with no preparation and enjoy it all the same and more. 

There is also an erotic side to it, of course. When cuddling with a romantic partner the tension of being so close does get the blood flowing. Sometimes you can feel his cock stiffen if you're spooning. I like to stew in my own sexuality and stay inactive sometimes. Letting the feeling roam and chill without fully quenching it. Cuddling can be very erotic all on its own! Especially when my ears and side start being kissed while cuddling. That is a good sensation. I feel like I am being pursued and must be had when kissed like that.

From a dominate person's perspective I imagine it to be more sexual. Holding a needy little bottom in your arms with puppy dog eyes making little pleasure sounds. I am told I make certain... sounds... when cuddling that I am not aware of (; Let me know how your experience cuddling subs is like.

Cuddling is a lovely experiment in human affection that should be explored more. This is The Horny Post, but cuddling can take on platonic modes between friends and family. My best friend and I cuddle each other platonically for example. And I am a complete cuddle baby at home. Cuddle forth and cuddle on! It may literally extend your life.