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初大神四郎さん

うーんまだバランスが掴めんな…！

四郎さんはガチムチにすれば良いってわけじゃないんだよね。

感情が優先される方を説得するのは至難の技ですよね(･ω･)

何故なら感情で話す人は理由が二の次だから。

コロナの危機意識について父と母で相違があり

母は出来る限り外出しないで欲しいと思っていて

父はマスクをして人のいない場所なら外出しても問題がないと思っています。

(散歩と写真が趣味だから)

母が頭ごなしに父を止めようとして父がそれに腹を立てている感じです。

母は日中何時間もウォーキングに行ったりします。

でも父の外出は許せないようです。

どう考えても通勤や買い物の方がリスクが高いし、健康管理のための外出なら認められています。三重県は感染だって少ない。

自分は外出するのに人には注意する母がおかしいと思ったので

なんとか説得しましたが、車での移動＝悪と思っていて大変だった…。

こらちは調べて根拠に基づいて説明してるのに

「だって、でも…」ばかりで中々納得してくれない

責めてるわけじゃないのにしまいには拗ねる。

一緒に仕事はしたくないタイプ…。

でも多少でも聞く耳は持ってくれるし最終的には納得してくれる事が多いので

自分の考えが絶対正しいと思っている人よりかはかなりましです。

数年前なら絶対聞く耳を持ってくれなかったので

母も少しずつ変化してきているなぁと感じます(=ﾟωﾟ)

Hatsu-Ohami Shirou.

I'm still trying to find my balance...!

It's not as if Shirou is good at being stocky.

It's a very difficult skill to convince a person whose emotions take precedence, isn't it?

Because people who speak with emotions have secondary reasons.

There were differences between my father and mother about Corona's sense of urgency.

My mother wants me to stay home as long as possible.

My father doesn't think it's a problem to go out with a mask on as long as there are no people around.

(I like to walk and take pictures.)

I feel like my mother is trying to stop my father without his head, and my father is resenting it.

My mother would go for walks for hours during the day.

But it seems that he can't allow my father to go out.

No matter how you think about it, commuting or shopping is more risky, and it's allowed if you're out for health care. There are few infections in Mie Prefecture.

I thought my mother was crazy for being so careful with people when I went out.

I managed to convince them, but it was hard because they thought that traveling by car = evil...

You've done your research, and you're giving an explanation based on evidence.

It's a lot of "but..." and "but...

I don't blame them, but they sulk in the end.

The type of person you don't want to work with...

But they're more or less willing to listen, and in the end, they're often more or less convinced.

It's a lot better than someone who thinks their ideas are absolutely right.

A few years ago, he would never have listened to me.

I feel that my mother is changing little by little.