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レオナルドさんφ(*ﾟωﾟ´*)

タートルズって足が艶かしくていいよね😁

人に物を頼むのが下手で相手を怒らせてしまう人っていますよね。

伝え方次第では対応してくれる可能性もあるのに🥴

断られたからといって横柄な態度を取れば、今後相手は何も頼みをきいてくれないし

対応してくれたのに文句を言うのは更に最悪。

頼むにしても段階を踏むのも大事。

いきなり１０求めるのではなく、２くらいにしておいて

相手が了承してくれたら、まずそれに感謝して

少しずつハードルを上げていく…みたいな。

何に怒ってるかと言うと父にです。

金くれというので、「じゃあ1万円でいい？」

と聞いたら「え！そんだけ？？もっと仕事しなよ！！」

みたいな事言われたので腹が立ってます( ˘•ω•˘ )

こういうのもアスペルガーだから仕方ないって思うしかないのかな。

There are people who are so bad at asking people for things that they make them angry.

They could have responded to your request if you had told them how to do it 🥴.

If you are arrogant because they refused your request, they will not do you any favors in the future.

It is even worse to complain after they have responded to your request.

It is also important to take steps when asking for help.

Instead of asking for 10 things at once, ask for 2 or so.

If the other person agrees, thank them first and then raise the bar little by little.

If they agree, you should be grateful and raise the bar little by little.

What I am angry at is my father.

He asked me for money, and I said, "Well, can I have 10,000 yen?"

I asked him, "What? That's all? You should do more work!

I'm angry because he said something like that ( ˘-ω-˘ ).

I guess I can't help but think that I have Asperger's.