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ホルスさんφ(^∇^〃)

昨日は色々あって、人を叱りました。

ちなみにファンボックスとは何のゆかりも無い初対面の人です。

ネット上で見ず知らずの他人を叱ったのは初めてだったと思います。

詳細は省きますが、あまりにも倫理観を欠いた行動をして大勢を不快な気持ちにさせ

皆が宥めても、その行動をやめず繰り返した人がいて。

流石に見過ごせなかったので強めに叱りました。

「自分は正しい！」と思い込んでる人だったので

すごくね…疲れましたよ。

結果的に相手は自分の非を認め謝罪、良い方向へ向かいました。

叱るというのはエネルギーを使うものです。

言う側も嫌な気持ちになるし。

ネットというのは相手の顔も思想もわからない。

だからこそ通話したりする場合、配慮が必要だと思ってます。

特に初対面の場合は地雷もわからないからね。

私も気をつけてはいるけど、

見てる人からは配慮が足りないと感じる事はあるかもしれない。

そのような場合は指摘してください。善処します🐯✨

Mr. Horus φ(^∇)

Yesterday, I scolded someone for various reasons.

By the way, it was the first time I met someone who has nothing to do with the fan box.

I think it was the first time I scolded a complete stranger on the Internet.

I don't want to go into details, but he acted so unethically that he made a lot of people feel uncomfortable.

Even when everyone appeased him, he didn't stop and repeated his behavior.

I couldn't overlook it, so I scolded him strongly.

He was so convinced that he was right! So I scolded him strongly.

It was very tiring.

In the end, he admitted his fault, apologized, and things went in the right direction.

It takes a lot of energy to scold someone.

It also makes the person saying it feel bad.

On the Internet, you don't know the other person's face or thoughts.

That's why I think it's important to be considerate when talking on the phone.

Especially when you meet someone for the first time, you don't know if there are any landmines.

I try to be careful too, but

I'm trying to be careful, but there may be times when people watching me feel that I'm not being considerate enough.

If this is the case, please let me know. I'll take care of it 🐯✨.