How to avoid becoming the "parent" in a romantic relationship (Patreon)

Doing this can create: 

1. Unequal power dynamic: When one partner takes on the role of the "parent," it can create an unequal power dynamic in the relationship. This can lead to the other partner feeling disempowered and dependent on their partner.

2. Lack of intimacy: The parent-child dynamic can also reduce intimacy in the relationship. It can be difficult for partners to feel romantic or sexual attraction to each other when one partner is acting like a parent.

3. Resentment: The partner who takes on the role of the "parent" may begin to feel resentful of their partner for not taking on more responsibility or for not being independent. This can lead to feelings of frustration, anger, and resentment.

4. Stifling growth: When one partner is always taking care of the other, it can prevent the other partner from growing and developing as a person. This can lead to a stagnant relationship and can prevent partners from reaching their full potential.

5. Unhealthy boundaries: When one partner takes on the role of the "mother," it can lead to unhealthy boundaries in the relationship. The partner who is acting like a parent may become overly controlling or may try to micromanage their partner's life.

Remember that a healthy relationship is based on mutual respect, trust, and communication. By following these tips, you can avoid becoming the "parent" in your relationship and have a happy and healthy partnership.