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Greetings, esteemed members of the Finesse community!

I want to keep this post concise and to the point. What is your preferred vetting question and why do you find it effective?

While there is no one-size-fits-all solution to uncovering the finer details about a person, there are undoubtedly specific questions that should be asked. However, I'm curious to know what your go-to question is for determining if a man possesses qualities such as being a provider, generous, or giving.


  1. "How would you describe your parents' relationship?"
  2. "What is the most memorable gift you have ever given someone?"
  3. "How do you feel about fulfilling my love language needs?"
  4. "If I told you that my love language is receiving gifts, how would you feel about that?"
  5. "Do you enjoy shopping for other people?"
  6. "What do you think is the key to making a woman happy?"
  7. "What are your plans for the next five years?"
  8. "What are the values that you hold dear to your heart?"
  9. "What are your thoughts on maintaining a work-life balance?"
  10. "What is your idea of a perfect weekend getaway?"
  11. "How do you approach resolving conflicts in your personal relationships?"
  12. "What is your opinion on the role of communication in a relationship?"
  13. "What motivates you to achieve your goals?"
  14. "How do you unwind and de-stress after a long day?"
  15. "What are some of the most important things that you have learned in life so far?"
  16. "What kind of qualities do you admire in a partner?"
  17. "What are your thoughts on marriage and starting a family?"
  18. "How do you envision your ideal personal and professional future?"
  19. Would you consider yourself a problem starter or solver lol?
  20. What does a serious relationship look like to you?


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Anonymous

What are you emotional needs? And what does it look like for them to be met?

Anonymous

Yes, vetting is important, and the idea of a perfect 1st date is one my 1st vetting question and it helps because I have been getting rid of the HH men and Dustys real quick and don't have to waste my time.