HAPPY SUCCESS FRIDAY ( SHARING A TOUCHING EMAIL) (Patreon)

Hey everyone!

I recently received an email that left me feeling so happy and grateful. The Finesse babe shared how they found my content extremely helpful and full of valuable advice and insight. Reading the email was truly touching 🌸 I would like to share this email with you all, not only does she give great details but also great advice. Despite the screenshot being blurry, I copied and pasted the email below for your reference. If you would like to share your success story or testimony, please feel free to send an email to askchanelty@gmail.com. Your feedback and experiences are valuable to me and I would love to hear from you. Thank you for considering!

Dear Chanel,

I wanted to take the time to say thank you for everything you are teaching on Youtube and your Patreon channels. You are the big sister that I needed.

I started watching your channel in June of 2021. I learned so much but I wanted to touch on specific things that you helped me with. For context, I started watching 'level up' channels and content about 4 years all this happened but I didn't get much result in dating or in my personal life. However, a lot of that changed in the last 7 months. I am currently 24 and live in a small town in Canada. I generally wear my natural hair, or spring twists 90% of the time because that is what I feel the most confident in and I am very happy with the results I am getting.

As for the men I choose, I am an equal opportunity dater and date men on the quality of their character but generally, I avoid North American men for obvious reasons. Furthermore, I take the spoiled girlfriend route because it works better with my lifestyle, values and long-term goals. I am able to take so much value from your teachings and make them my own. Currently, I do not use dating apps because they're simply DRANING. However, I am getting some success in meeting men in person and connecting. I just need to work more on translating that into getting them to spend. This is something I plan to improve over the summer.

Lesson 1. Dating profile: despite none of those dates coming out to anything serious, or longer than 4 months, I got a lot of experience and I can confidently say I am good at dating. This was not the case 2 years ago. In 2022 your teachings helped me to get shopping trips (my closet is LITERALLY OVERFLOWING), smaller gifts (gift cards, flowers etc.) but most importantly being able to try a lot of the local restaurants was a big deal for me since I am a foody and adventurer at heart. I also like that you gave me feedback on my profile in the chats. You're quick and accurate feedback gave me the confidence I needed to succeed as 'That Girl'. I also got cash here and there, the most memorable being a guy who gave me about $5,000 cash in one month to use toward my business (plus all the dates and shopping that month. And he made less than $CAD150k a year ). It ended terribly but I walked away with so much that I was able to bounce back quickly... But I cannot say the same for him.

Lesson 2. General Confidence: I don't care what anyone says about my standards. I DESERVE princess treatment and I accept nothing less, just because I decided not to. And you gave me the assurance to have that belief.

Lesson 3. The importance of image: I was never an ugly girl and I have a naturally slim/fit body type. However, once I started to make my basic maintenance a priority it changed things for me. This included getting my nails done regularly (3 weeks or less), waxing and regularly doing my hair to keep it fresh instead of trying to "make it stretch" another week. This added to my confidence and it also let men know what type of women they were dealing with. Doing those basic 3 things will literally ward off the men who want low-maintenance women.

Lesson 4. If a man wanted to he would. There are no ifs, ands or buts. When I first started dating on the apps, I chatted with many men from the bigger surrounding cities who did not want to drive the 2 hours to come to see me, and that was fine. I did not argue with anyone but it was a standard I set and I was not going to inconvenience myself for no man, at least in the beginning. I spent my energy on men who were open to the idea of driving the 2 hours to take me out without issue and it all worked out in the end.

Lesson 5. Walking away: I don't care if you're a nice guy, If I don't like you I will not give you my time. If I like you, but you won't give me what I want, I will leave. There is no discussion, no begging. The answer is "Okay." Then I move on to the next gracefully.

Lesson 6. IG profile/Current Boo: Your tips for creating another IG page helped me to meet my current generous boo. I have less then 80 followers there and I no longer use that page since I am looking to rebrand. But,  to my point, He randomly messaged me months ago and it was princess treatment ever since. It started with flowers and wine on every date. Then gift cards, cash, rent payments, amazing spa days etc. He is only 2 years older than me but SIGNIFICANTLY more mature than the men who were 15 years my senior and he makes less money than many of the men who were stingy that I dated before. I am grateful that you teach a holistic message about focusing on the treatment and the money and not just the money. He literally refuses to let me clean the snow off my car or open my own doors. And yes, he is Black. According to him, he didn't think women like me really existed. He thought we only lived on Twitter lol. So your lesson on aiming to be a dream girl is 100% accurate.

Something I learned along the way that was proven true:  A) Having one simple but expensive item is the best way to let men know you're expensive. In my case, it's the Tiffany Diamond T wire Bracelet. I wear it all the time but it is understated and not everyone really knows it. And men who see it in my experience get the memo really fast. B) Tinder is trash. My profile was so good that it got me blocked on Tinder in 2 days because they thought I was fake and they could not believe women like me existed in a small town like this one.

Have a great weekend everybody!