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Here is my advice :

So you’ve been dating him for about a month now ? Do you know his archetype? Have you Been dropping hints about purchases you want to make ? Does he seem like the a generous man ? What does he say when you speak of vacations or your self care days? Please remember your deadline for your bills isn’t his deadline. Now if he’s a sympathetic Steve archetype then yes maybe he will be willing to help you with bills, however if he is a different archetype like HH OR EE. Asking for bill money is not going to get him to SPEND anytime soon. You want to finesse with bliss not panic. This why it’s important to only date when you have your finances in order because you’re less vulnerable to get finessed yourself and you typically run into better potentials when you are less worried about your finances. I hope that this helps 💓🥰



Do you have any advice for her or anyone in this situation ⁉️

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Anonymous

Hi everyone, I definitely agree with you guys and Chanel regarding having finances in order. As a woman these men can “sniff out desperation”. And in his mind; what is she willing to do for this $$ or the man starts to have control over the situation. And No No. you never want them to have control. You want to be in a place financial that you can sit back and say “ I’m good or I can take care of this by myself or I can spend a bag on myself… Trust me it’s a wonderful feeling. These POTS will try to use all kind of games, tricks and scams on in this SD lifestyle. Definitely put your in a financial, stable situation whereas when the POTS or SD’s began the foolishness. Honey sit back, disappear and be UNBOTHERED.. I hope this helps

Anonymous

Even though you’re in a time sensitive situation, never let him see you sweat! If you need the money NOW, just come up with an unexpected emergency. Depending on how much money you need. “OMG!!! Babe!!! I was in a rush getting out the car and I dropped my phone” And pretend that it’s difficult to hear him every time he calls. Or you can’t FaceTime because your screen is cracked up. That should get you at least $1,000. iPhones are pricey. “OMG!! Babe my car just stopped in the middle of the road. I just got it towed to a mechanic shop. I’m waiting to find out what it was and the estimate to fix.” I’m so annoyed and frustrated, I could cry!!! 😢 Boohoo 😭 Not saying use those, but I think you get the picture. Unexpected things happen everyday! I don’t recommend a struggle lie.