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Happy MARCH  2nd! Springtime is near ! 
So I want to announce that finesse season is officially over☺️😞 we had a great run!  It starts back by October 2022.

What is finesse season :https://www.patreon.com/posts/finesse-season-55301601?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copy_to_clipboard&utm_campaign=postshare

💐!  Out with the old and in with the new! That goes for things AND people that no longer serve you or help you reach your goals, okay honey child.

Make room for positive thinking and abundance in your life. I want you all to really get that the finesse lifestyle isn't all outer work it takes inner work too.

Below I have listed some self-care and cleansing tips for you girls 💕

1. Delete all the useless numbers out of your phone📱🧚🏻 - delete all the numbers you collected from guys that did not pan out and all those old numbers you've had from years ago. Make room for the abundance and cash flow coming your way.

2. Detox from the men you typically attract. 🙅🏾‍- If you normally attract Horny Harolds and get a hint of one; Immediately drop him.

3. Cut off toxic people in your circle✄- If anyone has limiting beliefs that they push on to you or makes rude remarks about your new lifestyle...Kick 'em to the curb honey child. Or at least distance yourself. Limit the access these people have.

4. Remove yourself from toxic apps and groups💻 - an example could be a Facebook group that is just soo entertaining yet so negative. Go ahead and let that go, friend.

5. Delete and block people off of social media🚫- sometimes people who we see as an inspiration make us compare ourselves rather than improve. The only person you need to be comparing yourself to is the person you were yesterday (Do your pictures this week look better than the ones you took last week? Did you choose healthier options today? Did you write in your journal today? You are all the competition you need.) You have 3 options if you find yourself comparing yourself to someone else's social media.  Mute their page, unfollow their page, or block them altogether.

6. Delete all your app accounts and create new ones🌱- sometimes we need a fresh finesse name for our new identity. Sometimes we level up our pictures/bios and want to give the old POTs we didn't match with a chance to see us new, improved, and unrecognizable (we love to see it).

7. Take a break from dating apps & the lifestyle🚫📱 -  These apps, and chatting with multiple personalities can sometimes leave you feeling drained. Go ahead and take a break if you need it.

8. Clean out your closet and pick outfits for dates in advance👗✨- Clutter can make you feel de-motivated in general. So, tackle that clutter and plan your date outfits out so you do not feel overwhelmed when the time comes.

9. Create your manifesting journal and Pinterest vision board👩‍💻- Writing down your wants as well as having a vision board for them can help you ask for them and receive them with more conviction and confidence. Defining what you want and building the confidence that you can have/deserve the things you want are the first steps to receiving them.

10. Take time out for self-care💆🏾‍♀️🛀🏻-This means going to the chiropractor instead of ignoring that back pain.  Planning a spa day and or getting a massage. Don't think finesse for one moment during this self-care day, week, or month. Just pamper yourself and be present in that moment. You deserve it.

11.Directing your ENEGRY -This more mental than physical. It’s about self ! Setting your standards high isn’t the hard part keeping them high is. If hypergamous dating, sugaring or leveling up were easy everyone would do it . It is far easier to settle. Eat your right , work out, find a solid friend circle , drink your water, & continue to thrive in your everyday life. Always listen to positive affirmations🌷Do not listen to negative rap music, go to clubs or raves that typically have people who are trying to escape their everyday lives.  Avoid negative negative tv shows and podcast. Don’t get caught up in the everyday gossip ! Get your mind all the way together.

ALL LOVE

CNC 💵🧘🏾‍♀️🛍

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Anonymous

Doing this - love how I came across this on the exact date a year ago :)

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