Not the Finesse Friday you would expect but the ONE you NEED to see (Patreon)

Hey Finesse Fam,💕

This week we have a day trip turned Shopping Spree 😍 from one of our UK girlies.

£ 1500 was dropped on this shopping spree. . That's $2000 on a first date! But as you will see not all finesses are cut and dry. 

I've told you gals Ho Tactics is it! The prim and proper style does not work for all finesse. These men need to think they have a chance. Especially the Horny Harolds. Flirt! Let's make sure these dates don't feel like an interview. 

This Finesse Babe brushed up on her "Ho Tactics" before the date. I recommend reading and listening to things that get your finesse and feminity energy together right before your date. Put yourself in the right mindset to be the carefree, spoiled, flirty girl of their dreams! 

I've got some extra tea for you girls this Finesse Friday

This Finesse babe ran into haters along the way. Just like you might when a man is spoiling you in public. The cashier was asking her all kinds of questions trying to trip her up in front of her date. "Are you two sleeping in this city" "Are you taking one of these gifts to give to someone else etc" . She kept her cool and stayed closed to her date. He was spoiling her for the day and she was gonna stick beside him. In cases like this, you do not act out. Keep your cool and at the very least be nice nasty. "That's a lovely sweater my grandma has one just like it."😁😬.  Keep your positive and spoiled energy always.

I want you finesse babes to be careful because these tricks are tricky. Him having a "Muscle Cramp" to get her back to the hotel room 😑 Honey Chile! We as women can definitely be people pleasers. Once we get what we want we think we have to be accommodating and give a little. I'm here to tell you WE DON'T! What if he would've kept her gifts because the date didn't go the way he planned? Don't take any chances. 

You are trying to be sweet; the Whole time you getting finessed.  

At this point, you have the upper hand. The man is invested and he will not ruin the whole plan because you say no to something. Even if he does you still won because you got to keep your finesse and your boundaries. 

Pay attention to the advice some of the girls gave on how to ego stroke to avoid putting your bags in a "Safe location". Carry them bags till your arms fall off girl!

Let's thank this Finesse babe for giving us the details we needed so ALL of us can learn! 

Some lives I recommend you watch based on this Finesse Friday are linked below. 

When is it okay to bend the Rules?  https://www.patreon.com/posts/live-tonight-10-36264573?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copy_to_clipboard&utm_campaign=postshare

The Subtle Art of Flirting  https://www.patreon.com/posts/youtube-live-05-51106134?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copy_to_clipboard&utm_campaign=postshare

Friendly reminder you must be in the Ultimate Finesse Tier and higher to view my lives. 

Be safe, get the bag.

All Love, 

CNC 💕🛍💳