FINESSE MOVIES (Patreon)

1. Breakfast at Tiffany's🥐💎 - Based on Truman Capote's novel, this is the story of a young woman in New York City who meets a young man when he moves into her apartment building. He is with an older woman who is very wealthy, but he wants to be a writer. She is working as an expensive escort and searching for a rich, older man to marry.

Chanel's Take💳🗣: This movie is quite Iconic with its fashion and storytelling. Holly and her boyfriend are clearrllyy finessing so pay attention to the dynamic they have with their suitors and each other.  Observe how Holly's connections get her out of trouble.  Notice how she created a whole new finesse identity and how you can ruin your BIG finesse goals by dealing with criminals and tricks for pennies.  The thing that made her desirable was her child-like nature mixed with her coquettish qualities ( I recommend you start recognizing these seduction styles and looking into your own). It drew men in closer and made them want to take care of her.  Do not be afraid to learn from Escorts just know and reaffirm the boundaries that you have. Take what you need; leave what you don't. 

2. Secret society on Amazon prime🤫💄 - Celess and Tina play the game too well to be considered your average gold diggers. And they are winning too. But when a secret they both share comes out, that same shovel that got them out of the dirt could very well bury them. Based on the best-selling novel of the same name, Secret Society is a first of its kind, a cautionary tale filled with high fashion, high lifestyle, and high drama.

Chanel's Take:💰🤫  With Secret Society, you should take it with a grain of salt (as with all the movies) there is a lot of glamourization. There are definitely Jewels you can pick up from this movie. This is a movie that I would watch to get me in the mood to finesse. This movie is available on amazon prime.  I read this book too by the way so let's not forget our hypergamy books. 

3. The Anna Nicole Story👯‍♂️🤩- Voluptuous beauty Anna Nicole Smith (Agnes Bruckner) marries an elderly millionaire (Martin Landau) and poses for Playboy, but after her husband's death, her excessive drinking, pill-popping, and weight fluctuations take their toll.

Chanel's Take✨: Anna Nicole was a fan of Marylin Monroe so this is just another sign to study the greats but realizes where they lack. Learn from these tragic stories because both Anna Nicole and Marylin have tragic stories that ended with vices. But they have many successful tactics in their femininity that immortalized them and made them magnetic. Please prioritize your mental health finesse fam.  Unlike Marylin Monroe, she actually married a billionaire whom she met while working at the strip club.  However, she was not in the will, he did buy her gifts, told her to quit her job, and took care of her. He died a year after getting married to her. I think she was being strategic by even getting Married to him. I'm pretty sure if she could get in the will she would have; She was probably working on that and didn't expect him to die so soon 😭. Let's always remember the ultimate goal and that the finesse never ends. There are free documentaries on Anna Nicole on youtube as well.  

4. EVITA 1996 🎤✨(music drama) - Eva Duarte Peron rises from poverty to become an Argentinian actress and the wife of powerful President Juan Peron. Through a series of flashbacks, Eva transforms from an impoverished teenager into a woman of influence and power. After the death of her father, Eva travels to Buenos Aires and begins a string of relationships with powerful men before she meets Juan. Eva's ultimate power and influence earn her both admiration and hatred.

Chanel's Take💕💖- Not all finesse movies are going to look like "Pretty woman" or "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes". Eva grows up in poverty but she was practicing hypergamy all throughout the movie; she was more of a social climber. She became an actress, model, and radio show personality. Her connections with these men opened doors. She used all these men as stepping stones to level up. Not every guy is the one you are going to marry some of them are there for a specific purpose.   She dated influential men, then she meets a governor she marries this man and becomes the first lady of Argentina. Eva then lives the privileged lifestyle while also being a singer which speaks to having your own projects and identity while dating hypergamously. Life does happen so this movie has a sad ending. It's not a straight-up finesse movie. I wouldn't say it is for everybody but I think it there are definitely some gems in there.  This movie is based on a true story. It being based on a true story just makes it more valuable and realistic to me. 

5. Crazy Rich Asians 🤑- Rachel Chu is happy to accompany her longtime boyfriend, Nick, to his best friend's wedding in Singapore. She's also surprised to learn that Nick's family is extremely wealthy and he's considered one of the country's most eligible bachelors. Thrust into the spotlight, Rachel must now contend with jealous socialites, quirky relatives, and something far, far worse -- Nick's disapproving mother.

Chanel's Take: 💰We all want a hypergamous lifestyle but if it's not something you are used to and you get around catty rich women you may be in for a surprise. They will not always like us. It's not always going to be a fairytale. Sometimes you will have to deal with people who will send shade your way and not want you involved with their family members. So you must be ready for what you ask for. Although she claims it was an accident that she ran into him. Purely coincidence. I don't believe in those 🥰🤪😂

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Gentlemen Prefer Blondes👱🏾‍♀️💎👱🏾‍♀️ -Lorelei Lee (Marilyn Monroe) is a beautiful showgirl engaged to be married to the wealthy Gus Esmond (Tommy Noonan), much to the disapproval of Gus' rich father, Esmond Sr., who thinks that Lorelei is just after his money. When Lorelei goes on a cruise accompanied only by her best friend, Dorothy Shaw (Jane Russell), Esmond Sr. hires Ernie Malone (Elliott Reid), a private detective, to follow her and report any questionable behavior that would disqualify her from the marriage.

Chanel's Take🛍- This movie has been mentioned before but I MUST stress how good it is! Pay attention to the way Lorelie Lee (Marylin Monroe) flirts, affirms(makes men feel secure aka strokes their ego), and puts her foot down with the men in this movie! It is such a lesson for getting want you to want while staying in your femininity. Watch how she uses facial expressions to increase the power of what she is saying. And be on the lookout for the Gems she drops even though she is supposed to be the dumb blonde in this movie🗣. The fashion in this movie is simply ICONIC✨;  as well as the humor. This is a movie that although it was made in the '50s; I am sure you will be able to relate it to today. It is very modern in its presentation and thinking.  When you watch this get ready for your sight, humor, and finesse eyes to be engaged. 

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All Love, 

CNC