Do's & Don'ts on Dating apps ✅🚫📱 (Patreon)

Hey Finesse Fam, 🥰

Today I am going to give tips to save the girlies from potentially being blocked from dating apps, fumbling a bag, or seeing that dreadful "this chat has ended" alert when you thought your mouthpiece was A1 that day.  

 1. First things first, Pictures📸. They are your bread and butter.  Do not put old pictures on there. If its more than a year old don't put it on your profile. If you don't look the same anymore don't put it on there. You may just get called out about it on a date 😂

2. The perfect bio takes time💻. It will not happen overnight. So take your time creating your bio and do not rush it. Please.  

Try not to be cringy or sound desperate😬. I have seen some bios where you gals may think you're laying down hints to the lifestyle but you are just straight-up yelling it.  For Example, asking for credit scores in your bio, coming off rude, negative, and defensive ( I.e.  "Don't ask for pictures" "I'm not your mama, I dont cook " "Not here for hookups" ) etc etc.  

Our bios should not sound like everybody else. We are all "fun and outgoing" what else are you? It's not hard to go on google and use synonyms to describe yourself.  Creativity will always get you to the bag. 

3. Don't lie about your age🚫. You can lie that your birthday is coming up but lying about the year is unnecessary maybe a year or two off but no more than 5. If you are lying to come off youthful you don't have to. We are all young to someone. So just place your age range higher.  If you are 18-20 do not lie and say you are 21. You can't drink and you will be carded so and exposed in front of you POT. 🤷🏾‍♀️  We also only want to be lying to "POTs" that we do not see a future with or those that seem like they need a reason to be generous. We want our long-term POTs to go all out for our actual birthday.   Long-term POTs should also be generous just because. 

4. Do not argue with these men😡. If they offend you block and report but first think about if what they said is even offensive. Because some of you ladies take things too serious too fast. 

Don’t talk politics 🙅🏾‍♀️or post your vaccination status.  

Do post 3 positive character traits about yourself. 📑

Don’t say you’re looking for a Sugar Daddy 🙄

Do have a catchy headline on your profile

Don't log on If you are having a bad day. Your energy and attitude will affect how you speak to the men you swipe on. Having an attitude can get you banned as well.

Do have clear HD pictures📷. We know that pictures are what gets us the bag Also, try to have at least two pics of you standing, so they can see your whole body

Do take pictures of yourself being active🏃🏽‍♀️🛩... If you are into running, hiking, parasailing, horseback riding, etc, post a picture of yourself outdoors. It’s a great conversation starter
Travel pictures are great conversation starters as well.

Do smile 😊  Smiles exude confidence, approachability, and warmth. All characteristics women should have.

I hope these dating app Do's and Don'ts help you gals get to the bag and get closer to building the relationships that get you closure to the bag.

Happy Finessing

All Love,

CNC🥰🛍