✨BBW SUGAR BABY ADVICE ✨ (Patreon)

Hey Finesse Fam!

I want to give a little advice to Plus size ladies in the sugar bowl and finesse game ☝🏾

The finesse game is already challenging! It takes a lot of mental clarity and confidence to put yourself out there on these sites. So let’s be real being a BBW babe will create another barrier in this game. However, I don’t feel like it’s impossible! 

Dress the part! look the part! This implies too staying on point 24/7 and taking the time to purchase a wardrobe that compliments your body! This does involve wearing body shapers, faja, and waist trainers. Find you a good one you can wear under everything. You should be shopping at stores that cater to your size, not retail boutiques that just happen to have a plus-size section. BBW women wear heels! This goes for all shapes and sizes but heels compliment women no matter what size you are! The higher the pumps the better. If you have bad cellulite like myself wear thin sheen stockings to make your skin look smoother and it elevates any look especially skirts! When you are taking pictures make sure you are taking them at flattering angles that compliment you. Time after Time I witness plus-size babes taking unflattering pictures because you don’t know your angles. Learn them! especially if you want to find virtual SD. Further, use photo editing apps to touch up your body but don’t overdo the photo editing! We still want  you to look BBW 🥰

Also, I say this time and time again. Go where you are appreciated if you’re not achieving success on dating sites like bumble or tinder. Go to sites that cater to plus size babes like woo plus! Please do not put that you are BBW in your bio...these men are not blind. You don't need to repetitively input this in your bio.  You also do not need to oversexualize yourself in your pics or dating bio.

You do need to find men that fetishize plus size baddies and will spend a bag on it! Unlike the real dating world fetishizing isn’t frown upon because that’s typically what sugaring and finessing attract.  Find a man who is obsessed with dark skin, BBW gals, tall women,  slender gals, younger women, curvy women, or whatever!!  

Don’t forget to swipe, match, or favorite men who are bigger than you in size comparison. Although I am not considered plus size in the "real-world" in the sugar world I am. So I found more success when I matched with or entertain men who are all the heavier side! Plus size babes remember this; you will be surprised by what men like and don’t like. So don’t forget that you are and will be someone's fantasy girl! I’m a realist so I understand that it’s a different ball game but the same field for you, however, that shouldn't discourage you from finessing and looking damn good doing it 🥰

LAST BUT NOT LEAST BE CONFIDENT!💞

SIDENOTE: If you want to lose weight do it! If you want to get surgery do it! Make sure you do your thang! Whatever you think will make you feel or look better do it! 

CNC 💓