SHOULD YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE ? (Patreon)

Hey, Finesse Fam!

I wanted to touch on this topic right quick! 

Should you make the first move with a pot on SD site or REG Dating site, unless it’s bumble ... MY ANSWER IS NO!

T love answered this question so effortlessly. NOOO! You should not be reaching out to these men, they should be lining up in your inbox on these apps and sites. Some of you ladies need to realize men are supposed to be approaching you! On sugar daddy sites men who are not even sugar daddies get 100+ messages a day from naive women who are desperate for money. Why would you add yourself to that flock? If that man who is a hot commodity on the sugar site takes it upon himself to message you ... then you know you got him. We want our inbox to be full! We should not have to worry about messaging a man because we are being sought after. 

This plays a lot into what I am always preaching. Your pot has to be obsessed with you 😊

 He has to be  thankful and grateful that a beautiful woman like yourself is even taking the time out to respond to him. Some of you might take the initiative to message first, but if he is not smitten with you, I would not keep pursuing the conversation. 

Don’t be desperate! Be Desirable❤️😘

ALL LOVE,

Chanel