A MESSAGE FROM A FINESSE QUEEN 👑 💕💓 (Patreon)

Divine Blessings ladies! Coming from a place of love, light, and real heart to heart info (also from experience). We have to hold ourselves responsible for why things are not working out with men we come in contact with. We need to be able to yell at ourselves and say, girl, I need to do better. 

1. We need to look like what we are trying to attract. If you don’t look expensive, you won’t attract expensive. Chanel has look books of outfits and hairstyles on Patreon and she also has a look book for plus size ladies and hairstyles as well.

2. We need to work on our feminine energy. Many of us are very aggressive and throw out masculine energy whether we think we do or not. I had to keep catching myself. Everything these men say does not require a reaction from us. I’m the queen of ignoring men or people in general. Once I have cooled down, I politely explain to them whatever it is that I did not agree like, they’re more likely to listen to you, and if you’ve built a relationship they’ll listen because they don’t want to lose you. Take some time to listen and re-enact conversations from you tubers about being feminine, it goes a loooong way.

3. We are all beautiful and we need to figure out what works for us. No matter what you look like, you’ll need to pull out the beauty in you that all of us possess. Let’s stop making excuses and really take a hard look at what we are doing and if we are doing everything in our power to shine, level up and get what we want out of life. 

- Dahalia🦋 (from the finesse chat )