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Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 Psychiatrist violating boundaries

16:56 OPP & ethical practices

21:53 What is BPD Splitting

35:29 Disorganized attachment & despair

43:01 OPP 2

44:45 Labor rights & being a 'good' employee

54:33 What is the difference between shame & guilt?

1:08:14 Family dynamics in Gilmore Girls

1:18:58 Falling asleep to the podcast

1:21:36 Criticism trauma

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November 13, 2023

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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Anonymous

About avoidant and pre- occupied attachment, I always think of myself as avoidant, and when I hear pre- occupied thinking patterns that I relate to, that really comforts me. Avoidant somehow feels like I'm not trying enough, so I'm like "Good, I'm the desperate one". When I feel lonely, it's comforting to think it's not because I'm not trying.

Sarah

About the last email: I don't know if the person writing in could relate, but it reminded me of what I experienced, which is somewhat different from what Kirk described. My mom did not "swoop in" to help after criticising how I did something. Instead, she also criticised and yelled at me for asking for help or eventually being too scared to try something on my own. Which means you're really screwed no matter what you do. To this day I struggle with not having confidence in my abilities but also being too scared to ask for help and judging myself for not being able to do it on my own.