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TRIGGER WARNING: this episode has footage of extreme verbal abuse. Dr Kirk reacts to a video that Amouranth posted depicting her allegedly abusive husband. 


00:00 Introduction to Amouranth

00:32 Conceptualizing

09:12 Distorting reality, escalation, & melting down

16:19 Gaslighting, abuse, & regression

27:45 Exerting power & control

33:40 Abusers in relationships

50:57 Taking back power & further abuse

1:01:47 Abusive relationships in therapy

1:06:28 Update on Amouranth


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Anonymous

I would just hang up.

Anonymous

It's really hard when you've invested so much into someone and over time, like the frog getting slowly boiled, have learned to respond more and more carefully to their insecurities or triggers. You can't just hang up. Not only do you fear what they will do in retaliation, but you've been made to believe that you're always the problem so you don't feel like you have the right to hang up. You owe it to them to listen and try to "fix" it. At least that's my take on it.