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Lol. I’m getting a lot of comments about Watashi Wa being femine. Just letting you know. I have a course. I just say what it teaches me.

I’m just gonna listen to it and not confuse myself.

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Osiris Cage

Watashi wa is used by both; men & and women. So there is no problem with you saying it.

Rafael

That's it Lee, keep focused. Besides, watashi is not necessarily feminine, it's just formal for guys. So: Guys: watashi -> formal boku -> informal ore -> informal (my teacher said it's not that commom to use it in real life, but in anime we hear it a lot) Ladies: watashi -> formal / informal watakushi -> very formal boku -> strange for ladies to use, but some of them use in anime

Xsardes

And "The most random thing I got in notyfications today" award goes toooooo: This post. [Inert clapping] Mr. Lee do you want to say something to our audience before we drown in comment section?

Yaboyrocklee

Thank you ha. Thats what I’m taught. Random folks say otherwise. This is just the one time post. That i hear but I’m just gonna stick to the lessons hahaha

Ibzinho

I really do envy you. I would love to learn Japanese and have all the time in the world to do so but I'm extremely lazy 😂

theshittycook

Watashi can be used by both but really usually used by female. Boys usually use "boku" 僕, Luffy likes to use (ore) 俺, samurai (male) usually use "Sessha" 拙者, that's why Zoro was curious and feel weird Kiku use "Sessha" to address herself. And many type of knowledge in female and male tone and wording. But don't worry, no one is gonna judge. Listening to anime increase the learning speed and fun.

theshittycook

BTW, Mr 2 and many okama speaking very feminine-like if knowing Japanese.

Yaboyrocklee

Thanks Carlos. I think the course will teach the most simple accepted uses especially at beginner stages

Teyon Alexander

So when I took Japanese back in 1992/93 we were taught “watashi wa” but my instructor did mention that it’s common for men to say “boku wa”. I still said watashi wa because it’s what was in my books and homework. I have forgotten 98% of what I learned back then.

Andre

Funny story, there's this channel called "The Black Experience Japan" and the host documents black peoples experience living in Japan and other Asian countries. Well one of the people he interviewed said he had to relearn Japanese because his co-workers thought he was gay because he kept using the feminine endings instead of masculine endings - he learned from a female teacher lol. So apparently that can be a "big" deal there. The channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBlackExperienceJapan

Alix

Watashi is gender neutral There's no problem with men using it. Boku and Ore are considered more masculine (though you'll see women use these sometimes too, though that's pretty rare bc Japan's pretty rigid with gender roles), and Atashi is like a more feminine version of Watashi, but Watashi is gender neutral. It's just that that Atashi is super cutesy so most women tend to just use Watashi, so there's a misconception that it's a feminine pronoun

Random Guy

Watashi is not feminine. It just so happens that women use watashi more, because guys use ore or boku especially in casual speech. Watashi is polite speech and is what most people would use when talking to strangers.

Nakeem

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Kay M (edited)

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2023-01-15 20:20:28 Yes as others have said Watashi is not strictly feminine it is 100% gender neutral. It’s just that it’s more common for men to use “ore” or “boku” instead of “watashi” in casual conversation cuz those terms make the speaker sound more masculine. But when men want to be more formal they use “watashi” so you should use watashi when learning the basics. There are hundreds of first person pronouns each for a different situation so there’s no need to learn them all right away. For the sake of learning the basic grammar Watashi is enough
2022-05-30 18:04:34 Yes as others have said Watashi is not strictly feminine it is 100% gender neutral. It’s just that it’s more common for men to use “ore” or “boku” instead of “watashi” in casual conversation cuz those terms make the speaker sound more masculine. But when men want to be more formal they use “watashi” so you should use watashi when learning the basics. There are hundreds of first person pronouns each for a different situation so there’s no need to learn them all right away. For the sake of learning the basic grammar Watashi is enough

Yes as others have said Watashi is not strictly feminine it is 100% gender neutral. It’s just that it’s more common for men to use “ore” or “boku” instead of “watashi” in casual conversation cuz those terms make the speaker sound more masculine. But when men want to be more formal they use “watashi” so you should use watashi when learning the basics. There are hundreds of first person pronouns each for a different situation so there’s no need to learn them all right away. For the sake of learning the basic grammar Watashi is enough

Kay M

This is correct but also men can also use “watakushi” when being super formal. Since it’s a gender neutral term for formal speech. It’s just a more formal version of “watashi”

Jomekko

If were talking about basics most of the people above is correct. In terms of actual conversation we rarely use watashi, ore , boku, atashi, and watakushi. In a normal casual conversation Context is very important thats why "I' or "you" is not used often and it is not necessary to understand each others conversation. Thats why its easy to spot a beginner when they use watashi to refer to themselves in every sentence.